Not what I expected

At first she was going to start living with her parents.  She’d just come back to pack up.

Then she decided to just stay there on weekends.  The boys didn’t want to change schools.

She ended up not going at all this last weekend.

I took my older son to see The Last Jedi.  My younger son was afraid it would be scary.

I don’t know the future.

I’m glad I spent time with my boys.

I know they’ll to be okay.

So will I.

 

And now back to our regularly scheduled programming.

Things I’m grateful for today 20180113

  1. My family being here today
  2. Time to talk with my son
  3. Watching The Last Jedi with my son
  4. Carrie Fisher
  5. The theater’s restroom being directly across from the auditorium we were in
  6. Cafe Rio
  7. Costa Vida
  8. A new pillow
  9. Socks
  10. Shoes

Things I’m grateful for today 20180101

  1. New beginnings
  2. Hu Hot
  3. The Last Jedi
  4. Ferdinand
  5. Prayer
  6. Scriptures
  7. Electric clippers
  8. Salt lamps
  9. Text messaging
  10. Love

Empty your cup

“You must unlearn what you have learned.”

– Master Yoda

There’s a famous story that goes something like this:

A skilled martial artist came to Bruce Lee.  He was seeking training and wisdom.

Bruce Lee told him he needed to empty his cup.  The man’s cup was full of his own knowledge.  He would have to empty it first.  Then it could be filled with new, better knowledge.

We have to be open to the possibility of our ideas being wrong.  Otherwise we can’t really learn.  We can’t really change for the better.

I’m wrong a lot.  I might even be wrong about being wrong.