There are some obvious drawbacks to this.
I’m not as healthy as I could be (to say the least).
I don’t have a lot of energy.
On the other hand, I understand I’m nice to cuddle with.
I’m also gentle.
I’m not very hairy (except for my beard).
There’s a lot to be said for being a big teddy bear.
I kinda like it.
My wife doesn’t. At least that’s what she says.
Since she’s divorcing me it doesn’t matter.
I don’t want to get married again right away. I want to become the man I know I have the potential to be. The wife I find now may not be compatible with the man I want to become.
I love babies. Whenever I see babies or toddlers it makes me want another.
It’s not because I don’t love my boys.
They’ve been asking my wife for years when she’s going to give them a little sister.
A few weeks ago they told me Mommy didn’t want to have another baby. I reminded them about the divorce. They seemed sad.
I told them I was probably going to get remarried, and when that happened I might have another baby. They were happy about that.
When my oldest was born I wasn’t excited. I’m ashamed of that.
He showed me how wonderful being a dad is. He made me want to have another. Now I have two wonderful little boys.
They make me want to have even more kids.