There’s too much negativity in this world. It’s made us sick.
I only have one issue with what Prince EA says:
We can’t rely on government. We can’t rely on schools.
We need to solve our own problems.
We need to be positive as individuals.
I’m not saying we should ignore anything negative. Ignoring problems doesn’t make them go away.
But we should focus on what’s positive. What’s good. What we can do to help.
Take care of yourself.
Do what you can for others.
Encourage them to do the same.
Make your world a better place.
We all want things.
Wanting things reminds us of what we don’t have.
Our dream car.
Our dream house.
A boat like the neighbors’.
The problem with wanting things is that it never ends.
Many times I’ve wanted something. Sometimes I have to wait until payday. Sometimes I have to save up.
I buy the thing I wanted. I feel satisfied for a little while.
Then I want something else.
A few weeks ago I started listing things I’m grateful for. I’m trying to make this a daily habit.
I try not to repeat myself.
It’s easy at first. I list the basics.
Then it gets harder.
I think about what’s happened to me over the last day.
I think about little things that make my life better.
Sometimes I have to think really hard.
Thinking about the good things helps me feel better about life.
It makes make more grateful.
It makes me happier.
If you need more happiness in your life (and who doesn’t) try counting your blessings.
Does the music you listen to make you feel good?
There’s nothing wrong with listening to sad music when you feel sad. It can help you feel better.
Do you listen to sad songs all the time. Do you feel sad most of the time? Trying changing it up.
Say you listen to a lot of angry music. There’s a good chance you feel angry most of the time. You might want to try something new.
If what you listen to encourages negative behavior, it might be a good idea not to listen to it.
There’s nothing wrong with having negative emotions. We all have them. But if you feel that way all the time there’s a problem.
Try listening to things that make you feel happy. Songs about fun times. Happy times. Love songs. Even something spiritual.
I have a
feel-good playlist on YouTube. Feel free to listen to it. Or you can make your own.
Try listening to happier music.
It will help you feel happier.
It’s a weird situation.
My wife told me almost six months ago she wants a divorce.
She was thinking about it a long time before that.
We still live together. We sleep in different rooms.
She hasn’t filed for divorce yet. She talks about it occasionally, though.
I’m not really in a hurry. I just wish I knew for sure what was going on.
I still think the world of her.
She has plenty of flaws. I’m sure she knows that better than I do.
She wanted to be with me when I could barely support myself.
She was supportive of me when I was laid off and couldn’t find another job.
She worked to support our family so I could go to college.
She forgave me the first time I told her I’d been lying to her and that I was addicted to porn.
She stayed with me when I told her I wasn’t going to finish my degree.
Best of all, she’s given me two sweet, wonderful little boys.
I hate that I hurt her. Again.
It hurts me to lose her.
Whatever happens though, I want her to be happy.
He lived down the hall from me. Everyone in the dorm had to share a room. After the first term his roommate left school, so he had the room to himself.
I’d talk to him about the woes of my love life. He was a good listener and he’s share stories of his own. Sometimes we’d go for long walks together. Once we even walked to the next town, six miles away.
It was the end of the school year. I asked if I could move in with him. He was reluctant at first. He enjoyed having a room to himself.
I explained the difficulties I’d been having with my roommate. He agreed to let me move in.
I broke up with my first serious girlfriend/fiancee. I called him and told him what happened. I hadn’t seen him for a few years. He was going to school an hour and a half away. He invited me to come visit him the next day. He spent the day with me. He introduced me to some of his friends and showed me around campus. He asked me to consider going to school there.
That was the last time I saw him.
I’ve contacted him several times since then, most recently on Facebook. It’s not the same.
I miss my friend.
I’m so glad I met him.